In life, you will inevitably have to choose and decide about almost everything, including what you will willingly let go of and lose.
After some time—sometimes after many years—you must determine what is no longer the right fit for you.
You feel it in your gut.
You know it in your mind.
You sense a strange change in your heart.
You know your options—your choices.
The time has inexorably and inevitably come.
In a profound sense, you are making a choice—deciding who, and which part of you, will die or at least go into retirement.
You are deciding who you will become.
A painful decision.
Everything is connected.
Habits, behaviors, abilities, adaptations, identity, integrity, feelings, emotions, relationships, memories, status, success, reputation, fame, and everything else associated with that aspect of your life will slowly fade into the background of history.
Learning to lose and to let go has never been easy for me.
I have never liked it (endings); it hurts too much, but I learned it.
I learned to say goodbye through many “badbyes.”
I learned to see good while everything in me feels bad.
I learned to live.
I learned to love even what I once hated.
There is great beauty and meaning even in great sorrow, sadness, and suffering.
Losing and letting go of something or someone is a basic and constitutive element of life; the sooner you acknowledge and accept this, the better.
It is a painful, natural, and sometimes necessary process.
The current has its own course.
The river continues to flow.
Change is certain.
Perhaps the best thing you can do in such moments and circumstances is to let go of the previous chapter of your life—now part of the past—in peace and with a pinch of love, and then begin or continue, with great curiosity and enthusiasm, the next chapter of your life.
(While you still have pages left to write, before you run out of time and ink.)
Opservacije / Observations 
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